Quentin Edwards, Headmaster of Bilton Grange School and Chairman elect of the Boarding Schools Association, explains why
There has never been a better time to board. Recent developments in
boarding provision, brought about by the need to improve conditions to
appeal to the modern boarder and the advent of inspection under the
Children Act; the development of a culture of training and professional
development for all those in boarding staff positions; the shift to a
greater emphasis on the interests, rights and concerns of the child
have all made the conditions of boarding better and more flexible than
they have ever been before.
But this is not why a modern child
should consider boarding, nor why the modern family should consider the
extra expense and commitment to education involved in having children
at a boarding school.
The boarding culture
developed in the 19th and early 20th centuries as a recognition of the
need to develop a whole personality. Even in those days, there was a
belief that a sense of community, of personal independence and
responsibility, of a proper understanding of the role of leadership and
loyalty to those with whom one was playing and studying, were important
factors in the thinking of the educators who were in charge of boarding schools. The modern boarder can still derive these important experiences for personal development. The modern boarding school
encourages independence and the willingness to take charge of one’s
life. It breeds a sense of responsibility, of ownership not just of
personal possessions and their whereabouts but personal organisation in
the widest sense, and above all it breeds a real opportunity for
friendship.
At an early age children learn to socialise through
play. The modern urban community has increasingly isolated children one
from another so that the periods when they are together as a group are
now curtailed. It is often difficult for children to travel to see
their friends because parents are nervous about letting them out of
their sight to travel across a city or use public transport.
Increasingly, in the home, most forms of entertainment through the
video, television and computer screen are isolating. The vital skills
of personal interaction are not being practised enough, but within the
boarding school the constant exposure to one’s peers and the regular
periods of free time enable all ages to develop greater social skills
and the confidence that goes with them.
In addition, the
boarding child can become involved more fully in education and
learning. It is not just a matter of avoiding the hour or so wasted
daily by travelling to and from school, precious time which can be put
to better use with all facilities on hand and the staff available. It
is also that children can pursue their particular interest in a
sustained and uninterrupted way. This enables the pursuit of
excellence, with all the attendant confidence-boosting that comes from
being able to stay at a task until it is thoroughly finished. The child
can also learn about the consequences of actions both positive and
negative. Social responsibility grows with an awareness that what you
do will have a consequence and reaction for other people. This too
breeds greater maturity.
Above all, boarding offers a challenge
to the child: a challenge to be independent, a challenge to become
involved, a challenge to take responsibility, a challenge to pursue
something to the highest point that you can achieve and a challenge to
grow up.
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